Standing My Ground November 23, 2004
As I’ve blogged about before, my husband and I have decided not to attend the big extended family Thanksgiving gathering this year. I told my mom a while back and thought I made myself clear about the whole situation. Well, when I talked to her on Sunday she asked, “Are you sure you won’t be going?” The question was asked in such a way that it was obvious that she was pulling the guilt trip thing on me. I wasn’t giving in this time, though. I replied, “Yes, I’m sure. It’s just too much this year.” I’m sorry, but the guilt thing is just not going to work this time. For once, I’m being selfish and protecting myself. I do feel a tad guilty, though. Not because of my mom, but because my husband will miss out on the Thanksgiving food that he finds so yummy. I could care less. I’m not really a fan of cranberry sauce, stuffing, pies, and such, but I know my husband’s a big fan of Turkey Day food. He’s reassured me, though, that he’s more than fine with the decision.
My brother emailed me today. He and his wife are bringing their beagle, Tucker, with them. He asked if I would mind walking the dog if we get to my parents house before the rest of the clan are back from the big shindig. I emailed him back to let him know that I wouldn’t mind. I then received a two page reply containing detailed instructions on how to walk Tucker including such items like how to clip the leash to the collar, what words I’m supposed to use before putting the leash on and while out on the walk, how to prevent Tucker from “walking” me instead of the other way around, how to give him a treat afterwards, what to do if he jumps on me, etc., etc. Holy crap. I’m just going to be taking the dog for a walk. Do I really need a two page manual on how to do that?
I really am looking forward to spending time with my family. I haven’t seen my two brothers in quite some time. It’s going to be interesting, though.
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On a totally different note, my paranoia is striking again. My RE does not prescribe antibiotics for FET cycles. It makes me nervous because I know a lot of people take them. I know one reason they’re prescribed is to prevent infection during ET, and since my ET could very likely involve jamming catheter upon catheter into my cervix, I’ve been wondering if I should ask to have some prescribed. So, for all of you experienced FETers, what do you think? Did you use antibiotics in your protocol and do you think I should ask about them?
- Posted in : IVF Part 2: FET #1, various other ramblings
- Author : amanda
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Way to stand your ground! Sometimes being selfish, isn’t being selfish. It’s necessary.
I was on 100 mg Doxycyline two times per day for five days during all of my transfers, fresh and FET. But then again, I never got pregnant, so maybe you’re better off NOT taking it! Who knows. Wouldn’t hurt to ask your RE about it.
Good luck!
Danae/Hardscrabble
I admire you for standing your ground. Wish I was as brave. . .I don’t feel prepared for the festivities this year.
Stay brave!