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Special Days May 14, 2007

Today is my birthday, my 30th birthday to be exact. It feels kinda weird to not be in my 20’s anymore. Does this mean I have to be a real grown up now?

We don’t really have anything special planned for today, but that’s ok because yesterday was more than special for me. The past few Mother’s Days have really been hard. It was pretty surreal to actually be celebrating it this year. Dan got me some extremely lovely and heartfelt gifts that left me in tears.

I have to admit, though, that even though yesterday was a happy day that it was also impossible not to think about what it took to get to this place, to remember the pain of the past five years. My thoughts were also with all of my friends who are still in the trenches. I want so much for them to be able to celebrate Mother’s Day, too.

All in all, though, it was a very special day that I won’t soon forget. I’m so thankful that I got to cry happy tears instead of sad ones this year.

So, you would think that between yesterday and today I’d be set as far as special days are concerned. Well, there’s one more coming up in the near future. On Wednesday Dan and I will celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary.

I really can’t fully express what all of these special days mean to me. I am just so very grateful to have a wonderful husband and now an amazing son. My heart is so full.

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1. Krista - May 14, 2007

Wow, Happy Mother’s Day, Happy Birthday, and Happy Anniversary. I am so glad that success has brought such happiness. I was a little sad yesterday too, thinking of the baby beginnings that we had lost. But still.. it is different when you are 5 weeks from your due date. I am so happy for you Amanda.

2. Melissa - May 14, 2007

Happy Mother’s Day and happy birthday! I will also wish you an early happy anniversary. I am so glad you got to spend MD as a mom this year. I was grinning like crazy all day yesterday!

3. thalia - May 14, 2007

hooray for joy, amanda. I’m glad that this is what you get, and I’m delighted (and utterly unsurprised) to hear how much you appreciate it. I hope the joy just keeps on coming.

4. somewhatordinary - May 14, 2007

Wow, you and my best friend are on the same page cosmically or something, today is her 30th birthday and her 5th wedding anniversary is this week. What a special time for you!

5. projgen - May 14, 2007

I wasn’t a fan of mother’s day even before we started this whole IF fest o’ fun – I think yeah, yeah, every day should be mother’s day – but I think it takes on special meaning when you’ve been trying so hard and so long to be a mother. That first one must be amazing. I’m so happy for you that you finally got to experience it!

6. T - May 14, 2007

Happy Birthday Amanda! And uh, no – you don’t have to be grown up at all!

7. Shelley - May 14, 2007

What a great month for you. Happy Birthday Amanda! I’m so glad you had a good day yesterday. I couldn’t imagine that it would be anything less.

Party, party.

Shell

8. JJ - May 15, 2007

Happy Birthday! And glad you had a good mom-day, but its very special you remembered what it took for you to get to where youa re now=) And no, you dont have to be grown up!

9. Heather - May 15, 2007

Happy everything, Amanda! You deserve every minute of it.

10. Miss X - May 15, 2007

Happy birthday! I am glad that life is so wonderful for you. Really.

11. Aileara - May 18, 2007

A belated Happy Birthday!!

12. waiting line - May 21, 2007

Yes, happy belated birthday! And the photos of your baby boy are just darling. He just looks like he’s growing by leaps and bounds. Great job mom!

13. Jen - May 21, 2007

Happy belated birthday, anniversary & mother’s day! Glad to hear this time is such a great one for you–it’s about time we got to the celebrating!

14. Dee - May 21, 2007

Happy belated birthday and happy belated first Mother’s Day. So many wonderful occasions these days :-) Glad you’re reveling in the joy!

15. Dee - May 21, 2007

Happy belated birthday and happy belated first Mother’s Day. So many wonderful occasions these days :-) Glad you’re reveling in the joy! Oops–and happy anniversary too!

16. Sarah - May 31, 2007

You deserve all the happiness in the world – so glad to hear that you are so filled with joy. Happy belated birthday and happy anniversary.

17. Lisa - June 3, 2007

Happy belated birthday! I don’t know how I missed this post. I’m glad to hear all the joy in your voice and I hope you had a wonderful anniversary!